
D.A.R.E. Challenge: Day 1 — DECIDE
Brenda AdamsonWelcome to Day 1 of the D.A.R.E. Challenge.
This isn’t the beginning of something small —
it’s the ignition of something immense.
To RISE GREATLY, you must first choose to lead differently.
And to lead differently, you must first decide with intention.
That begins by doing what most won’t:
Turning down the volume of the world
so you can finally hear you.
You don’t just start differently.
You star differently.
You choose to move like the light you are —
and lead from your own frequency,
not the static around you.
Today, we go DEEP.
Not to escape — but to remember.
Before action, there is clarity.
Before movement, alignment.
Before you chase — choose.
🧠 Introducing the DEEP Framework
This challenge isn’t about performing your way into change.
It’s about going inward before you go outward.
We move through every phase of this challenge using the DEEP Framework — our inner work sequence for transformation:
D - Discover Patterns, potential, pain
E - Express Truth, genius, fear, vision
E - Expand Possibility, tools, healing
P - Perform Aligned action (not perfection)
🪞 DEEP is the mirror. The real work. The transformation layer.
It invites a voluntary shift from the soul —
a willingness to own your choices from within,
instead of waiting for permission from the outside.
🔍 Today’s Focus: DECIDE
“Decide” doesn’t mean making a to-do list or setting vague goals.
It means getting honest about what you’re really here for.
It means peeling back performance, roles, and people-pleasing.
It means asking the one question most avoid:
“What mission have I been avoiding because it would require all of me?”
This is the Discover layer.
Discover what’s real. What’s yours. What’s been waiting.
🔑 ACTIVATION / MEDITATION: The Inner Ignition
Before you write, draw, or move — you tune in.
This is your soul's pre-flight check.
Close your eyes. Ground into your breath.
Inhale deeply through the nose, exhale slowly through the mouth. Do this 3–4 times until your nervous system begins to settle.
Place one hand on your heart and one on your lower belly. Feel your pulse. Let your body become a compass.
🔁 Repeat this mantra slowly, either aloud or silently:
“I decide to return to myself. I decide to hear what I’ve ignored. I decide to rise greatly — from within.”
💭 Now ask yourself quietly:
What truth within me has been waiting to be chosen?
What would shift if I showed up for that truth today?
Visualize this:
You’re standing at the base of a launch tower. But this isn’t NASA. This is your soul’s command center. You’re not waiting for permission.
The countdown begins the moment you decide.
Breathe into that moment.
Feel the silence before ignition.
Let the spark of decision light up your core.
Then — open your eyes.
Pick up your pen and begin.
Let's dive DEEP.
📝 JOURNAL PROMPTS
Write it raw. Say the unsayable. Name what wants to be known.
What energy am I bringing into my orbit this week — and is it mine?
What truth have I been avoiding because it would change everything?
If I said yes to my real mission, what would have to fall away?
Who am I when no one else is watching?
What does clarity feel like in my body? Where do I feel misaligned?
🎨 CREATIVE EXPANSION
This is how we translate clarity into expression — how we bring the inner shift into the outer world.
✍️ Creative Writing Exercise
Prompt: “If I gave myself full permission to lead my life on purpose…”
Write freely for 10–15 minutes.
Let the words find you before you try to sound wise.
You’re not writing for performance — you’re writing to remember.
You’re writing to meet the mission that’s been waiting inside you.
Use these questions as spark points:
- What do I know to be true about me — even when I doubt it?
- What decisions have I been postponing out of fear?
- What clarity have I been craving, but avoiding?
- You don’t need to get it “right.” Just get it real.
🎨 Art Journal Prompt
Visualize your internal compass.
Make the invisible visible.
This isn’t art for the world. This is visual language for your own alignment.
Draw, paint, sketch, or collage what it looks like to be in alignment with your truth.
What symbols or images represent clarity to you?
What colors express your grounded yes — and your sacred no?
Is there a visual metaphor (compass, flame, star, seed) that speaks to where you are right now?
🌿 EMBODIMENT
Make your clarity physical.
We don’t just think our way into change — we move it into being.
Choose one embodied action today that reflects the decision you’ve made.
This action should be:
✅ Intentional
✅ Aligned with your truth
✅ Slightly uncomfortable — but deeply right
Some examples:
- Initiate a conversation you’ve been avoiding.
- Declutter something that no longer reflects who you are becoming.
- Create something that expresses what you now know is true.
- Commit to a boundary, a plan, or a pursuit that came through in your journaling.
The moment you act in alignment, the mission becomes real.
Let the world feel your decision.
📡 FREQUENCY TRANSMISSION
“The moment you decide — not wish, not wait — but decide…the universe moves. Your orbit realigns. And the next level becomes inevitable.”
🔭 What’s Next: Day 2 — ACT
You’ve opened the door.
Tomorrow, we step through it.
But today — go DEEP.
Decide on purpose.
Choose what’s yours.
Choose to lead your life — from the inside out.